Stories

Housing is consistently one of the greatest needs we see among the individuals and families we serve. While every client's situation is unique, stable housing is often the difference between moving forward and remaining trapped in a cycle of crisis.

While determination, courage, and resilience are essential, lasting independence is often made possible because of the people, organizations, and communities willing to walk alongside someone on their journey. At Holding Out HELP, we know that no single organization can meet every need. The challenges our clients face are complex and often require a network of support. That's why community partnerships are such an important part of the work we do.

Money impacts nearly every aspect of a person's life. It determines where they live, what opportunities are available to them, how they access healthcare, whether they can pursue education, and even whether they can leave unsafe situations. Yet for many individuals from polygamous and other insular communities, financial education and financial independence were never part of their upbringing. While every client's story is different, financial control and financial abuse are

Holding Out HELP provides a variety of trauma-informed services, including emotionally focused therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), EMDR, and neurofeedback. These services help clients process trauma, regulate their nervous systems, reduce anxiety, and develop healthy coping skills.

When someone leaves a polygamous culture or other insular community, they often leave behind more than a home. They may leave behind their support system, financial stability, transportation, personal belongings, and sometimes even contact with family members. The first days and weeks can be filled with uncertainty.

Every day, individuals and families from polygamous cultures and insular communities dream of building a self-reliant, stable, and independent life. Navigating the outside world without a traditional background, credit history, or an established support system can make that dream feel incredibly distant.

Two former clients share their stories of leaving polygamous communities and finding strength, healing, and a new beginning with support.

Growing up in a fundamentalist polygamist group, I was prepared for labor and subjugation, not the real world. By eighteen, I lacked a basic education and the social skills to protect myself from exploitation. College felt like an impossible world—but the heaviest burden wasn't the schoolwork; it was the trauma. Through Holding Out HELP, I found the life-saving therapy I needed to heal. This month, I graduate with honors.

We have an amazing lawyer who we use to help our clients in unique situations. This case was no exception.

We are honored to present the story of a young couple who have found self-sufficiency through hard work and sheer determination.

Calvin came to us from the FLDS a few years ago. He was not in a good head space, and through therapy and support, he is now a thriving, independent young man.

I just wanted to tell you how grateful I am for all that you have done to help me ever since I have found you. I came here with almost nothing; almost no money or official papers to prove that I am a U.S. citizen.

My journey with HOH began after I woke up one morning in agonizing tears and paralyzed by fear, guilt, and shame. The memories that woke me up were new to me and I did not understand what was going on in me.

Dessert & Silent Auction Benefit March 12, 2021 7:00 to 9:00pm South Mountain Community Church Join us for our 2021 HOH Dessert and Silent Auction Benefit. The focus for the event is “Joy” amidst the pandemic and how “Together We Rise” to bring hope and healing. Come enjoy dessert, a silent auction, and encouraging stories while raising money for a worthy cause. This year due to Covid-19, we are making some changes to create an event that is safe and enjoyable. We are havin

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HOH has just opened their complex trauma center for those clients who are high risk and need extra attention and care.

Holding Out HELP goes MOBILE to collect spare change! All proceeds from Coin Up will go towards funding our new COMPLEX TRAUMA CENTER.

It was the summer of 2012 and Nathan showed up after leaving the FLDS with his 5 children in tow. He had never taken care of his children alone and his wife, who had left years earlier could not be found. ⁠

CRISIS FINANCIAL PLANNING - 6 THINGS YOU CAN DO RIGHT NOW Prioritize bills – Whether your job has been affected or not, look at all your bills and identify which ones are critical and those that you may not need to pay immediately. Do check in with service providers as some may be offering assistance or an option to temporarily skip payments. Reduce spending – You should start reducing nonessential and discretionary spending in the event things get worse. These expenses can

During challenging times, it’s important to care for ourselves and each other. Here are a few simple, positive steps to help you navigate uncertainty.